I have decided that I want to cut things off completely with one of the women I’m seeing. I mentioned in a previous post that I have three chicks that I date — my regular girl, a high maintenance chick with a hot body, and another woman who has a steady boyfriend.
Well, I’m trying to get out of the deal with the woman who is taken. There’s nothing emotional going on here — it’s strictly sexual. But I still haven’t been able to break things off. She comes down to SoCal a couple times a month on “business” — we get together for a night and she goes on her way. We don’t have much in common and I don’t think we feel anything for each other other than lust.
Last time I saw her (about 3 weeks ago), I told her that was it. But currently, as I write this, she’s on a flight on the way to see me. Now, I’m not the kind of guy to pass on free hot sex but I’m starting to feel bad for her man.
Recently, they got engaged (that’s why I told her it was over). The guy is committing to her for the rest of his life? That’s a huge step. And I’m banging his “true love.” UGH! I don’t know if I all of a sudden have a conscience, or I am just thinking about this because my best friend is engaged right now … I’d hate to think his fiancee might be banging another guy. That would crush him.
So, what should I do? I have already refused her. She’s coming anyway. She’s edging on psycho and I don’t want things to get messy. If I just don’t open the door, things are going to get ugly. If I open the door, I’m sure we will end up in bed.
Do all men have a problem saying “No” to a sexy chick? Will I ever grow out of this behavior?
What’s the worst breakup that you have ever gone through? Leave your comments here and let me know. Is breaking up ever easy?