Jennifer Alfonso Killed by Husband, Announced on Facebook

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Thu, Aug 8 - 11:06 pm EDT | 8 months ago by
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Social media is getting a bit too involved in everyday life. After Jennifer Alfonso was shot to death by her husband, the man posted about the murder on his Facebook account. He made a complete confession — but did try to claim it was self defense. A few hours later, he was turning himself to police in Miami, Florida.

Scroll down to see 9 pictures of Jennifer Alfonso, including an uncensored look at her after getting shot. The husband, Derek Medina, had the audacity to publish it for the world to see — and we have a copy.

Only 26 years old, the wife had divorced this loser in the past but unfortunately decided to give him another shot. That decision turned out to be unwise. Let us hope her family is able to find peace after this horrific turn of events.

Here are the images — but be warned that the second and last shots are not safe for the workplace and are definitely gruesome. If you’re ready, click “Next” to view all nine:

Jennifer Alfonso

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(source: facebook.com)

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  • http://www.blomlaw.co.nz/ John Cox

    Just because he has now killed her does not make him a “loser”, or imply that he was responsible for the couples previous divorce. Do not jump to conclusions.

    • stopblamingthevictim

      Are you serious? He killed his wife–with his daughter in the house–and posted it on Facebook for all to see. People who knew the victim know that she showed up to work with bruises on her face. He is much more than a loser–he is a sick murderer. The only conclusion I can jump to is that he [and you as well for defending him] are crazy.

    • 15yr-old tryingtomakeapoint

      Excuse me? Did you just say that murder does not make someone a “loser”?
      I’m pretty sure I can now conclude that you are a loser. A very creepy loser. No jumping necessary.

    • Katie Noël

      I won’t jump to any conclusions about what I do not know, but, anyone who posts evidence, of a killing they did, on Facebook is most certainly a loser… and we do know he did that much, regardless of why.

    • TruthHurtz

      Surely you’ve said this because you desperately need attention..or want to play devils advocate..otherwise you are a sick individual..or just an a**hole..in any event it is clear that you ARE a loser simply based on your lack of brain power..smh

    • Melinda Roalson

      SO LET ME GUESS YOU ARE ONE OF THOSE GUYS THAT THINKS WHAT HE DID WAS ALRIGHT WOW SERIOUSLY I THINK YOU NEED MENTAL HELP!!!!!!!!!!!! HE KILLED JENNIFER AND POSTED A DAMN PICTURE OF THIS WOMAN LAYING DEAD AND LIFELESS ON THE FLOOR WITH BLOOD ALL OVER HER ARM AND FACE….IN MY OPINION I STRONGLY BELIEVE THIS WOMAN WAS BEGGING HIM NOT TO KILL HER AND HE DID IT ANY WAYS. I ALSO WOULD LIKE TO ASK YOU JOHN COX…IF YOU ARE SUCH A MAN HOW IN THE HELL WOULD YOU REACT IF THIS HAPPEN TO ONE OF YOUR FAMILY MEMBERS OR FRIENDS AND THEIR KILLER POSTED IT ON FACEBOOK NOT ONLY THAT IF YOU HAVE CHILDREN AND THEY SEEN THAT HOW DO YOU THINK THEY WOULD FEEL ABOUT THAT. NOW THERE IS A VALID POINT POINTED OUT TO YOU GROW A PAIR AND BE A MAN A REAL MAN THAT IS!!!!!!!!!!

  • crushkittykitty

    um he killed someone and posted on facebook that makes him a loser and anyone that thinks otherwise is also in the same category a loser.

    • Marinka

      Anyone who starts their posts with “um” is an equal loser.

    • 15yr-old tryingtomakeapoint

      I understand you’re simply trying to be funny, but you cannot call someone who starts their comment with the word “um” as equal a loser as a murderer. There is no atrocity worse than the taking of someone’s life, except perhaps mass murder or genocide. If you would like to try and equate mediocre grammar to murder, go right ahead, sir. But that’s just plain-ass rude.

    • Marinka

      Another atrocity is an aduit posting as a “15yr-old tryingtomakeapoint” – what the hell is up with that???

    • Lance Toothman

      Pedophilia and rape is as bad, if not worse, than murder.

    • Carlos Medina

      Fuck off and go join your death cult in a suicide gathering.

    • Tristen Whitlock

      carlos medina

    • Katie Noël

      Are you seriously trying to say slang is tantamount to murder, while not even using a grammatically correct sentence? If you’re going to troll, at least try to come off as intelligent.

    • Marinka

      That’s a wonderful profile shot of you.

    • Katie Noël

      Thank you… you don’t think my nose looks too big? :-)

    • Carlos Medina

      Yes. Anyone who says “um” is a dip shit who can’t maintain a train of thought long enough to even begin a sentence. Dumb people are a blight upon Terra and are the source of all misery and trouble mankind suffers from.

    • Yvi LaUnica

      ”What’s truly troubling” is a bitter person trying to get attention by leaving ignorant remarks. I know you are starving for attention but why not have little respect for the victim..

    • Carlos Medina

      Why don’t you just pray to your sky wizard to deal with them? Why don’t you pray to your sky wizard to feed the hungry, house the homeless, clothe the naked, water the thirsty, cure the diseased and end war?

      Because, I mean if all of your pretend-thought energy isn’t stopping this, either it’s bullshit fantasy and doesn’t work, or you’re just a psychopath and you actually aren’t wishing (praying) hard enough.

      You monster.

    • disqus_TXbAW3jEhk

      He’s building his case for Stand Your Ground.

  • crystal

    He is,piece of shit if you asked me he killed his wife cold blooded then posted it on fb saying rip you,don’t think that way off he is a mental case and that poor daughter had to witness her mothers death i hope they kill him in prison no matter what she may have done killing her and then posted it on fb what a sorry sack of shit !!! I pray,for jennifers family and hope they get the justice they deserves wtf is wrong with people now a days!!!!

  • Cold

    are those leg warmers?

    • Zimmerman Did It

      In Florida, in August, right?! This is a conspiracy.

  • Autumn

    I can’t believe this, this was my childhood bestfriend. He deserves everything that’s coming to him. Rip Jennifer.

    • Cristal

      Sorry to hear that. You and all her other friends and family will be in my thoughts.

    • 15yr-old tryingtomakeapoint

      I hope that God will bring you and all of the people who knew Jennifer peace and understanding. I am so sorry for your loss; like Cristal, you will be in my thoughts as well. God bless.

    • http://www.twitter.com/a_okafor007 Anthony C. Okafor

      God? Really?

    • 15yr-old tryingtomakeapoint

      What’s your point here? Let’s not quarrel about theology on a comment about someone’s loss. Have some respect.

    • http://www.twitter.com/a_okafor007 Anthony C. Okafor

      How about no. I respect what has earned respect and I about tired of hearing the god card being played every time something tragic happens because if he actually exists he’d stop this nonsense

    • 15yr-old tryingtomakeapoint

      Respect for the fact that someone is in mourning. Does that not earn your respect?
      Go to church, read the Bible if you’re wondering why He doesn’t stop this nonsense – Christianity explores that. This is life, and this is why we need God. If you want to talk about Christianity, then go to Church and read the Bible. If you don’t want to do that, then don’t talk about it, and please don’t ridicule people who do. Just because I’m not an atheist doesn’t mean I go around ridiculing people who believe that or who explore that belief. For people who are mourning and great pain, whether they believe in God or do not, it can be comforting to know that there are people out there who are praying to something greater than themselves for the sake of others.

    • dave

      yes!!!

    • fu

      You really need to watch Zeitgeist, and I believe its part 1 that would be most fitting for you. Watch it with an open mind and don’t just turn it off when you hear something you don’t like.

    • nick

      Zeitgeist becomes a religious movement itself soon after part one, with all the “re-education camps”. i know you are 15 and you are on the right path, but you need to start researching a little more….

    • Rotten Johnny

      Can’t you make a fucking point by speaking for yourself rather than telling someone to watch a video on your behalf? Is everything that YOU have to say irrelevant?

    • Carlos Medina

      Fuck off you stupid zealot faggot.

      No one wants your psychopathic deity haunting anything involving their sanity. Go get yourself killed by some cops so you can go to your fucking psychotic skyland paradise already.

      The day the world is rid of you fucking schizophrenics and your insane delusions of a magical death worshiped land, the day the world won’t be such a fucking shit hole.

      Zeus loves you.

    • Knuxie

      Go back to reddit, and take your fedora with you.

    • http://www.twitter.com/a_okafor007 Anthony C. Okafor

      Go skydive with no parachute

    • http://www.twitter.com/a_okafor007 Anthony C. Okafor

      go jump off a cliff

    • Bob

      Preach

    • dottie

      this is not a debate about god get a life! someone died tragically and all you can do is argue? grow up!

    • http://www.twitter.com/a_okafor007 Anthony C. Okafor

      2 Comments is not a debate. Why don’t you get a life and not respond.to my comment? Why dont u Grow up and quit believing in imaginary space daddies. Or you could do the human race a favor and kill yourself because I will do what I want when I want

    • http://www.twitter.com/a_okafor007 Anthony C. Okafor

      die slow

    • Yvi LaUnica

      we are all responsible for our own actions.

    • Yvi LaUnica

      And you Sr. don’t even respect yourself, Using someone death to exert your own hatred leaves much to be desired on your part,what could you possibly win by posting such a hateful comment….. I DO BELIEVE IN JESUS! and I will keep you in my prayers GOD BLESS :)

    • Lance Toothman

      How was his comment “hateful?” Because he doesn’t believe in your god? That makes his statement hateful? Good luck with Jebus. (yes, I spelled it that way intentionally)

    • Marinka

      He’s just pointing out the obvious, that there is no God.

    • Yvi LaUnica

      Oh but there is, just because you can not see him does not mean he is not there even for you that are so quick to put down such a beautiful thing as FAITH,,FAITH is not only when things are going good in your life or like most people myself included that we tend to forget and only remember god when we want things to go our way..And when they don’t then you want to blame god.. I believe everyone has there own opinion on god and faith and that is fine but why people feel they must slander each other because of it is beyond me its not a competition..

    • Lance Toothman

      Because people like you, who blindly follow, can’t see that your logic is faulty. If god existed, why would children be raped and murdered? “It’s all a part of his plan” is the worst mindless garbage ever spouted.

    • Carlos Medina

      No, you don’t understand; they’re fucking sociopaths in a death cult. They actually look forward to their version of Ragnarok – when JAYSUS “returns”, something along the lines of 5-6 billion people will die.

      They’re fucking demented.

    • Carlos Medina

      HUR DUR JUST BECAUSE YOU CAN’T SEE UNICORNS DOESN’T MEAN THEY AREN’T ALL IN HOGWARTS RIDING THEIR NUMBUS 2000′S.

      HUR DUR THE BEAUTIFUL THING ABOUT FAITH IS IT DEFIES LOGIC AND REASON, AND DOESN’T REQUIRE FACTS OR EVIDENCE TO EXIST. IT’S SO AWESOME BECAUSE YOU CAN JUST SAY IDIOTIC THINGS AND FUCK OVER WORLD POLITICS AND SCIENTIFIC PROGRESS WITH FAAAAAAAITH GAWWWWWWWWDDDDDDDDDDDD OH LAWD JAYSUS I LOVE YOU JAYSUS YOU DIED FOR OUR SINS AND STOPPED GOD FROM DESTROYING THE WORLD AGAIN WHAT A LOVING GOD I LOVE YOU GAWWWWWWD

      OH OH OFH FIYA FIYA SKY WIZARD ANGRY MAKE SCARY LIGHT EXPLODE THE TREES AND SKY CRY TOO MUCH AND WATER DROWN LAND.

      Fucking stupid savages.

    • Carlos Medina

      HUR, LET’S NOT QUARREL ABOUT THEOLOGY AFTER I VOMITED OUT MY TERRIFYING/PSYCHOPATHIC/SCHIZOPHRENIC BELIEF IN A SKY WIZARD.

    • Joe Legal

      Anthony …Your throwing the Atheist Card and the BLACK LIB CARD… That’s what wrong with America!! People like you

    • http://www.twitter.com/a_okafor007 Anthony C. Okafor

      When did I throw those cards? Oh I NEVER did. It’s morons like you that made America the shithole of a country it is today. Why don’t you do your part in making it better and kill yourself

    • http://www.twitter.com/a_okafor007 Anthony C. Okafor

      cool story moron

    • Lance Toothman

      You have the grammatical skills of a TEAbagger.

    • http://www.twitter.com/a_okafor007 Anthony C. Okafor

      God? Really?

    • Carlos Medina

      I CAPITALIZE THE “G” IN GOD BECAUSE DAS HIS NAME. EVEN DOUGH GAWD MEANS A DEITY, MY RELIGION IS FUCKING LAZY AND STEALS FROM OTHER FAITHS.

      Goddamn. Your god is a cunt. Fuck off and join him.

    • Shy

      I’m so sorry. No one should ever have to see a loved one like this. You’ll be in my prayers tonight

    • Carlos Medina

      I’LL CLOSE MY EYES AND CHANNEL MY PSYKER ENERGY INTO THE MATERIUM AND BRING FORTH HEALING ENERGIES. I AM A WIELDER OF THE MAELSTROM OF THE WARP.

      DAEMONS HARKEN TO MY COMMAND. I AM THE FIST OF THE GOD-EMPEROR. I AM JUSTICE INCARNATE. I AM A LIBERIAN OF THE ADAPTUS ASTARTES.

      WE ARE ULTRAMARINES.

    • Gail Pandori

      So Sorry Autumn…My heart and thoughts and prayers are with you and her family in this very difficult time. Truly a tragedy!

    • Jim

      It’s exceedingly disrespectful to the victim and her family to show her death photos. Hopefully when the publisher of this article dies, his death photos will be plastered all over the internet for his loved ones and everybody else to enjoy.

    • Carlos Medina

      It’s exceedingly hilarious to the internet and men to show her
      death photos. Hopefully when the publisher of this article makes a lot of money, his wealth will be plastered all over the world for his loved ones
      and everybody else to enjoy.

    • Matt

      From what he posted, sounds like she was beating his ass and he defended himself. Girls always think they’re invincible and can just attack guys and not get whats coming to them.

  • pipip

    how do i shot wife

  • Shneevels

    While murder is never the answer (instead just walk away…for good) some men put up with a lot of abuse from women. But since we live in a culture where men are monsters and women can do no wrong, this guy will be hung from the highest media tree, and her alleged abuse of him will be conveniently overlooked.

    • stopblamingthevictim

      Yeah…her co-workers have already said that she suffered abuse from HIM and had visible bruises. Maybe she finally stood up for herself or maybe this wacko thought that claiming self-defense would help him get out of murdering his wife. Oh wait…it’s Florida. Maybe he’s not so crazy to think that after all.

    • Jessie J

      Hey why don’t you join the other three million people today and compare this incident to the Trayvon Martin case because it happened in Florida.

      Oh, wait…

    • IAmLars

      The Trayvon case is not the only insane stories to come out of Florida.

    • steve

      while this story is sad a lot of the same points of the trayvon case can be made. i dont believe this guy was defending himself as i believe zimmerman forced himself into a position so he could get the assholes that always get away but he feared bodily harm, one punch can kill someone, he doesnt have to retreat, he doesn’t even have to have injuries only fear self harm, only one person left alive to tell the story. even if you are the agresser you can still pull the trigger as long as you fear bodily harm. he said that she was hitting him over and over again no witnesses to say otherwise. did he fear harm from her punches at the time he pulled the trigger then it is selfdefence who doesn’t fear harm from a punch after all it only takes one punch to kill..like zimmerman he said he was hit first and feared harm. stand your ground doesnt count for the killing of police or household spouses. it is weird how both zimmerman and derek are labeled from the fbi as having little heros complex. maybe he thought she was going for his gun. he doesnt have to prove she was attacking him the state has to prove that she wasnt. i hope this guy dies a slow painful death that he sees coming for him hell skin him alive and throw him on a ant hill for all i care. i noticed he is in a paper suit the cowerd is to afraid to hit population. he isnt a big guy not in prison anyway. someone will stick something in him and turn him into a puppet. i know i am an asshole for saying this here but for people to say the cases have zero in commen is crazy. if she wasnt his live in spouse it would be stand your ground by same definition. she was hitting him he feared the hit so he shot her. stand your ground states that she doesnt even have to hit him only be able to carry out a threat of harm or no witness left alive to say otherwise. thats all it takes in fl. no such thing as a fist fight anymore. if a person goes to hit you and one hit can kill you kill them before they can hit you again or at all. I have a feeling we are going to see a lot more of things like this as long as you can kill a person even if you are the agresser as long as you fear bodily harm. so no more fist fights just rounds flying.

    • Carlos Medina

      HE COULDN’T HAVE BEEN DEFENDING HIMSELF BECAUSE HE’S A MAN AND SHE’S A WOMAN.

      THIS IS ALL THE ARGUMENT ANYONE WILL EVER NEED, EVER.

      CASE CLOSED.

    • Carlos Medina

      Yeah they totally know what happens in their home, or have proof, or saw bruise marks, or aren’t just regurgitating the same dribble they’re expected to spew.

    • 15yr-old tryingtomakeapoint

      I’m sorry, but that is absolute bullshit. My mother has suffered from physical and emotional abuse, both indirect and direct, from her father and both of her past husbands. I am the daughter of her second husband, and after living for 13 years in the same household as that man I can tell you that there are some men who ARE monsters, and they DON’T even get held responsible for their actions, much less hung from the highest tree. Men are the stronger sex. They are, and there’s no getting around that. There is no reason why a man can’t get away from a woman who’s abusing him, or at least seek out help for it. But do you know how hard it is for a woman to leave a man? I hope some day you never have to know, because as a child of abuse, I would never wish someone to go through even the slightest of what my mom and I had to go through. I truly pray to God that He will show people how much pain women of domestic violence go through and encourage people to help them. Women can do no wrong? Are you kidding? On what planet are you living on? In our society women are portrayed as undesirable if they don’t wear just the right clothes and make-up and look presentable at every moment, they’re no longer beautiful or sexy if they’re over a certain age, and they’re treated like sexual objects for any guy to please himself. And men? Well they don’t even have to comb their hair if they decide that’s too much for any given day. While women are considered whores and sluts if they have sex with a guy on the first, second, or third date (not saying that any woman should, it’s a personal choice and I’m just pointing out the inequality), men can have one-night-stands and no one thinks anything of it – in fact, men are considered “cool” if they do, and “gay” if they don’t. Even if you or many other men don’t believe that way, that’s the way our media and society portrays women. If you don’t believe me, go pick up a Marie Claire or Cosmo magazine and read the shit they try to sell women. So don’t go on bullshitting about “women can do no wrong,” and that men are just portrayed as monsters. Everyone can do wrong, and we all have to account for our actions eventually. But the fact of the matter is that men hold the power in our society – we are not equal, no matter how hard we will try. The only thing that can help this world is if men realize that they are the stronger sex and take responsibility for it, which means NOT abusing their wives, girlfriends, family members, coworkers, or friends. It is absolutely true that there are women out there that abuse men, and I would never deny that because I don’t believe that any type of abuse is permissible. However, the fact is that it is so incredibly more common for men to abuse women.
      I’d also like to share with you something from my life. My father would mentally (and physically) abuse my mom, playing mind games with her and trying to make her think she was crazy. Later I discovered that he is a bona-fide psychopath, but back then neither my mom or I really thought anything was all that wrong with him. My mom would get so frustrated and upset because he would toy with her and drive her insane, so there were several times when she would yell and scream at him and try to push him. But did that make her the abuser? No. She’s Italian, it’s her nature to fight back. I’ve lived with my mom for 15 years of my life now and I can tell you for a fact that, yes, she has her problems (we all do), many of which are thanks to the emotional abuse she’s endured throughout her lifetime, but she is a genuine, caring, beautiful person. Just because she pushed my dad doesn’t mean I’ve ever been concerned that she would hurt me, or that my dad was right in any way.
      Yes, allegedly Jennifer did punch her husband. I can imagine where she was at – probably very frustrated and upset and wanting to get him to understand. But do you think she would have actually killed him? According to news statements he was the one who brandished his weapon first, a pistol, and then she ran downstairs to get a knife to protect herself. Former co-workers of Jennifer said that she would often come to work with signs of physical abuse, and that her husband would often come to her workplace and demonstrate controlling behavior. Bottom line, taking away all other facts, Derek Medina shot and killed his wife. Even if you had suffered abuse, would you kill your wife? Who kills their wife? That’s right, BAD men kill their wives. Don’t ever try to say that killing someone, especially in that setting, is warranted – especially a woman. We ARE the weaker sex.
      You should read all the information out there surrounding the event before you jump to conclusions and make harsh comments. It’s at the very least simply respectful to the family and others who have endured domestic violence. I would also encourage you to read “Why Does He Do That?” by Lundy Bancroft, “Without Conscience” by Robert Hare, “When Dad Hurts Mom” also by Lundy Bancroft, or any other books that focus on pathology and abuse. There is so much that the public doesn’t understand about the inter-workings of pathological people, and how they are tearing apart our society. Just for the record, as I mentioned above, I am NOT saying that women cannot or that there are not women who are pathological and abusive. Though there are significantly LESS (looking at statistics, just read one of the books I mentioned for the source) pathological women than men, the population still exists. Whether it’s male or female perpetrators, people are still incredibly unaware of their presence and impact on society.
      I’m sorry for such a long reply, but I was incredibly upset after reading your comment. I hope in some way this has given you some insight on the matter, or even just reminded you that victims of domestic violence are very sensitive and that jumping to conclusions without all the evidence is extremely disrespectful and hurtful. I wish you all the best, and God bless you.
      My prayers are with the family of Jennifer Alfonso for their loss and the heartache they will have to endure, and also for the family of Derek Medina for the pain they too will have to endure as a result of his actions. Domestic violence effects everyone, and in the unfortunately not uncommon instances of murder, the effects are even greater. I hope that women who come across this story and even this comment will take the initiative to go to the bookstore and research pathology and how it effects your dating life, even life outside of dating. No one wants to do it, and no one thinks it’s going to happen to them, but when you think that, remind yourself of Jennifer Alfonso and that picture of her in her kitchen. Anyone can wind up with a pathological husband or wife, and women especially (since it is a greater population of men that are pathological) need to be careful and know what to look for. Shocking as it is, murderers don’t always have a sign on their shirt that says it outright.

    • Roflcopter

      tl;dr

    • 15yr-old tryingtomakeapoint

      I’m glad you came up with something significant to add to the conversation. That must’ve been hard.

    • Walter Melon

      15 year old kids trying to make a point these days, I swear. #godbless#tybg

    • Yvi LaUnica

      That 15 yr old young lady has shown to have more respect than you Sr. …and she was not trying she made a point ,her point’ which is more then I can say for you.The only thing you have proven is to be ignorant and bitter. But no worries she’s a smart girl am sure she already knows ”MISERY LOVES COMPANY”

    • tldr

      I agree with this

    • It Doesnt Matter

      So… your argument is because men are stigmatized worse for it then any time a man is under physical abuse in a relationship its BS? If you are really so familiar with domestic abuse you would know its more often a mental block from getting out of situations than a physical one. A man who thinks he cant hit women and is co-dependent on his partner may just take a beating because he doesnt feel like he can respond. Its also pretty sexist AGAINST women to think that women cant overpower men if they so choose. I personally know a marine male who could have murdered his wife any moment he wanted to, and himself had taken lives of males in combat, but would often get physically beaten by his wife and he would just take it because of the same reasons a woman getting beaten would.stay. Co-dependence and a strong loyalty to his love.

    • 15yr-old tryingtomakeapoint

      If you actually would’ve read my comment you would have seen that I did not in any way state, nor insinuate, that any time a man is under physical abuse in a relationship is BS. I’m saying that the conclusions the previous commenter came to were BS.
      I never said that women can’t overpower men – if women have weapons, yes they can. Maybe if you find a woman that is an insane bodybuilder and match her with a malnourished young man, she wouldn’t need weapons. As you said in your story about your friend, an average woman can only overpower a man (without weapons involved) if he allows her to. Your friend allowed his wife to abuse him because he loved her. That doesn’t mean he was the weaker sex, as you mentioned he absolutely was not. The woman still was the weaker sex. Your friend was a very good man to restrain himself from hurting his wife even though she abused him. But that doesn’t take away from the fact that he was stronger – you said he was yourself.
      I also take you’re comment that “who could have murdered his wife any moment he wanted to” quite offensively. Anyone can murder anyone any moment they want to if they have a gun or at the very least a butter knife. You make it sound like you think he should have murdered his wife, forgive me if I’m misconstruing, or that he should be held high because he didn’t. My mother wanted to kill my father, but she didn’t go find a gun and shoot him. She would never do that, ever. Even through all the abuse she’s taken from his hand. Yes, it’s notable that your friend didn’t hurt his wife in retaliation, but not notable that he didn’t kill her. No one has that right in a domestic setting. Ever. So don’t make him sound like a saint because he didn’t murder his wife. That’s ridiculous.
      Co-dependence and loyalty is not always why woman getting beaten would stay, either. There’s many other factors, including finances, children, lack of education, inability to find a job, etc. Often times a woman won’t “love” her abuser (although some still do and go through that with the “rollercoaster”), but simply stay with them because they have been threatened or are having difficulties sorting out some of the factors I mentioned above.
      You also have to admit that the cases in which men are the victims and women are the abusers are incredibly rare compared to the other way around. Just pick up a book about pathology or domestic violence and, like I said, although there is absolutely still a population, one has to admit that it is much smaller. I would never say that it should be disregarded or that it is BS because it is less common, just that the higher attention should be given to the BIGGER problem, which is that men are much more commonly the abusers and women the victims.
      By the way, I am very familiar with domestic abuse. I lived through it for 12 years, and still deal with the emotional trauma. So please don’t lecture me about abuse. I totally understand it can go both ways, but I would ask that you respect that more often it goes one way than the other, and in this instance, with Jennifer Alfonso, we’re talking about the woman as the victim. Medina shot and killed his wife, not the other way around, and no amount of wiggling can twist that fact. It’s all over the internet.
      I absolutely know that it’s more of a mental block. My mom struggled through the emotional trauma of leaving my dad even though he had strangled her, came home drunk and pushed her around. I had to continually remind her why she was leaving him and even now sometimes, some 3 or 4 years later, I still have to convince her that we made the right decision. My father is a horrible man that I have no doubts would have, and still would if he had the opportunity, killed both my mother and I had we not been smart and made the decisions we did at the right times. A LOT of those decisions were very difficult, due to the “mental block” you stated of not wanting to believe someone who you love and look up to (husband, father) is pathological.
      I am very sorry that your friend had to endure the abuse he did. No one deserves to be abused, male, female, whatever. I absolutely believe that is awful. But it’s more common for women to be the victims, and it’s easier for men to leave women. Bottom line.

    • fu

      You really need to stop with the “women are weaker” thing. It’s so unfortunate that you were raised that way. Us actual WOMEN know otherwise. Hopefully, someday, I hope you grow up and remove yourself from that weak mindset. Thoughts like yours are the kind that hold women back. It’s a damn shame!

    • 15yr-old tryingtomakeapoint

      Go ask a biologist who the stronger sex is – naturally, it’s men. There’s been scientific studies done, and yes though each individual varies, the majority of men are stronger then women. That is, unless every woman takes steroids and becomes a body-builder. To me, it’s a damn shame that people are always treating the younger generation like they’re absolute idiots. Didn’t you have a brain when you were 15? Didn’t you wish people would treat your opinions just the same as an adult’s? I’m no less of a person because I’m younger than you, and just because you’re a WOMEN doesn’t mean you’re any smarter than I am.

    • Yvi LaUnica

      Well I think your opinion is well founded and weather you are 15 or 50 it makes no difference you are well spoken and as we all do have your own opinion. However I will tell you this Do not argue or try to defend yourself from people like these..We all have our own mind and don’t have to agree with everyone’s opinion.Some people seem to forget that debating our differences of opinion does not necessarily mean your are arguing there is no right or wrong simply an opinion….and as far as men and women go I agree ”most” women are physically weaker then ”most” men and you don’t have to be a rocket scientist to know that :)….

    • Lisa

      I have to agree with some of what you said. I agree that some women stay in abusive relationships for a variety of reasons. I am in a mentally and emotionally abusive relationship right now with a man who will kill himself, literally if I throw him out. I am a hostage in this relationship, however, I am doing something about it. I am NOT going to kill him, I have no right to take his life, I am in therapy and working on a plan to get out. I am financially stable and pretty sure I could over power him if I needed to, size does not matter in this case…A women does not need to be an insane body builder with a malnourished husband and have a weapon to over power him. She has to have the right self defense training and mind set and she can kick the ass of just about any man she wants. Most male abusers are cowards. You will never see them hit or fight with another man. The avoid confrontation with other men and go home and take it out on their wives to make themselves feel better. You seem to be an intelligent young lady. I do hope you are in therapy because some of your views on domestic violence seem to be coming from the eyes of a little girl who watched her mom be hurt by her dad. Without therapy you will suffer in your own relationships with men, friends, lovers, coworkers and boyfriends will pay the price for your fathers actions and so will you. You make a lot of great points and you seem to be headed in the right direction, just don’t get to caught up in ” the man is always wrong” thinking. I wish you lots of luck in your future!

    • 15yr-old tryingtomakeapoint

      Thank you truly for your kind words, and for being so respectful. I am so sorry that you are in such a situation, and yes while I understand that with the correct training women can overpower men, I would urge you to be careful with your abuser. Abusive people don’t play fair, and even if they’re no weapons in the house they can find ways of obtaining them. I’m not saying to cower down to him, but just be very cautious and mindful of what you do and his reactions – they can be clues as to how pathological he is and how fast you should be moving to get out. It sounds like you have a good knowledge of abuse and are doing the right things, and just the fact that you are aware you are being abused and are working to get out is half the battle.
      I’ve been lucky enough to have some male family friends that have set good examples for what good men look like, and I do realize not all men are bad. Like you said, though, it is difficult coming from the mindset of having watched my mother be abused.
      Thank you again for being so respectful and saying such kind words. I will be praying for you!! I hope one day you find a relationship that is truly rewarding and never have to live with someone who emotionally abuses you again – everyone deserves that, especially those who have lived through abuse. Don’t ever doubt yourself and what you know is wrong – be careful and never give up!!

    • 15yr-old tryingtomakeapoint

      In fact, quoted from my original reply to the first comment:

      “It is absolutely true that there are women out there that abuse men, and I would never deny that because I don’t believe that any type of abuse is permissible.”
      BOOM.
      Thank you, and goodnight. I’m tired now.

    • Genevaw4

      High Five well said…

    • You Talk Too Much

      Cool Story Bro

    • fu

      You are completely dilusional to say that men are the stonger sex. What an ignorant and sexist comment. But I guess you can expect that from a little girl. Actually, I know 10 year olds with more common sense. As a eoman, I know there are plenty of women out there that can overpower a man. The fact is, some people are stronger than others and some peoe are weaker than others. Its not a male or female thing. I’m sorry for what you have been through but please grow up a little more before commenting on adult matters.

    • 15yr-old tryingtomakeapoint

      Scientific studies have proven that men are the stronger sex. Just take a look around you – men don’t just have bigger muscles because they work out more. It’s because, naturally, that’s the way the world works. Like I mentioned in a different reply, every individual differs (think a man that doesn’t exercise at all, eats junk and has a scrawny body type, or a woman who takes steroids and exercises out all the time), but, in general, men are stronger than women. It’s a fact.

      Please grow up a little before you go insulting young people with opinions. I’m not a “little girl.” I have opinions and they have a right to be heard just like you. And I’m not “dilusional” – if anything, I’m delusional (check your spelling when insulting), and I don’t consider myself that. But perhaps that’s one of the side effects of being “dilusional”.

    • R. Pagan

      People have the tendency to be insensitive with matters such as these. Look at some of the other posts on here? People find this funny when there’s nothing funny about it. My advice to you is to try and take the opinions of others with a grain of salt. I’ve learned that no matter how valid your feelings on the matter are, there will always be someone who opposes it. And in todays society, people feed off of conflict and negativity. Hence, why the news reports more bad than good, it’s a hunger that people have. Unfortunately, that’s the world we live in.
      I am sorry you’re growing up in such a hostile environment and it’s not fair that some are so closed minded to the fact but I implore you to keep your head up and don’t bite the bait that some people will hang over your head. Judging by your strong post, you strike me as a very resilient young woman. Stay true.

    • Shneevels

      I’m sorry that this has been your experience, but that doesn’t make it the norm

    • Carlos Medina

      Nobody gives a shit what your mother suffered from. Why do you worship a god that causes such misery in your life? Oh, what’s that? Because you’re a sadist/masochist? Fuck off.

    • Bazork

      Exactly. It’s funny how everybody bashes Middle Eastern culture for being chauvanistic yet here is the exact same in reverse. Women get jobs they clearly aren’t even qualified for just for being pretty or to fill some b.s. quotas and truly, let’s be honest here, never even have to work hard for anything in this country if they don’t want to. Yes, you know exactly what I mean, just sleep your way through life, some sucker will take the bait!

      And lest we forget, you can drown five of your children to death in a bathtub, say you were “depressed”, and get away with it! What a sweet deal!

    • 15yr-old tryingtomakeapoint

      I cannot believe how completely you have twisted society. Excuse me? GO LOOK UP SOME STATS!! Yes, we have the equal pay act, but did you know that in some professions women ARE STILL PAID LESS than men? No to mention the fact that men don’t have to shave, wear makeup, dress nice, EVEN COMB THEIR HAIR to find someone who will love and marry them, while women are casted out as heathens and “uglies” if we don’t? Do you even minutely understand the stigmas surrounding women in our culture? Take a look at women’s magazines, or, here’s one: take a look at young teenage girls. How many of them dye their hair? How many of them wear some kind of makeup? How many of them wear thick, black eyeliner? How many of them have piercings, hair extensions, wear jewelry, dutifully stick to fashion trends? Do you understand the level of pressure girls have to be under to go to such extreme lengths? And it’s not just teenage girls, either! Older women do the SAME thing, in fact, it can be even worse because our society tells women that as they age they are uglier and less valuable. Women in America are incredibly pressured to look like some perfect ideal that doesn’t exist, because if they don’t, they’ll never find a man that will love them. Speaking as a teenage girl, I feel like this every time I walk out the door, and so do my friends, and so does other almost every other woman. It’s wrong.
      We “never even have to work hard for anything in this country.” Hmm, let me think about that one. Sorry, got nothing. Apparently you’re right, cause every woman I know just sits around jacking men off.

    • dave

      you are a really angry person. I’m a male. I’m been mentally abused by females… we aren’t all abusive. Sorry for your experience. You don’t HAVE to wear makeup etc. Yeah know…a man can’t walk into a job interview unclean and unshaven any easier then a woman can without makeup. All my female friends LIKE..no, LOVE makeup.

    • 15yr-old tryingtomakeapoint

      I know all men aren’t abusive, and even the majority aren’t. Thank you for commenting and reminding me though – your comment did make me feel better. I like make-up too, but I don’t like the fact that society tries to tell women they’re ugly if they don’t wear make-up. That drives me crazy. And, yes, I understand men can’t walk into a job interview without shaving and looking presentable, but it’s the social stigma that’s upsetting. Even though they won’t get a job looking unshaven and unclean, they’re not considered “ugly” or less than any other man. For women, it’s different. But thank you for saying what you did, I appreciate it.

    • Yvi LaUnica

      I must say for such a tender age you sure are a very insightful intelligent,respectful young lady :)

    • Marinka

      It’s okay, Dave – don’t argue with someone posing as a 15 year old girl. You won’t get anywhere. What’s truly troubling is that a grown woman feels the need to pose as a girl that young just to get attention.

    • fuckin ashamed of us

      oh my god i just cant believe how sad everything seems in society today.women are paid less than men. thats why we make up more of the work force right now.but thats not what this article is about. weshould have these discussions elsewhere not to disrespect

    • 15yr-old tryingtomakeapoint

      Oh yeah, I forgot to mention: unlike men who WOULD sleep with anyone for anything, and in fact PAY to have sex, most women out there actually have slight morals and don’t sleep around with guys just to get what they want. Yeah, there’s women who do that, but take a look around, buddy boy: the majority don’t.

    • Lisa

      He is just pissed that he can’t get laid with a fist full of fifties in a whore house! What a jerk and don’t waste another minute of your precious time responding to Borat!

    • Marinka

      Have you ever watched “Maury”?

    • Bruce_Leet

      You are referring to the Andrea Yates case I presume?

      Do you think she will be released from the mental hospital? What year do you think they would release her? I think her release is very unlikely.

    • lisa

      Borat is that you? Moron!

    • 15yr-old tryingtomakeapoint

      I read your other comment that was deleted… LOL so true, thanks for the support XD

    • IAmLars

      And your evidence is….?

    • Gail Pandori

      sure looks like she was on her knees when she was shot and fell back. I don’t see abuse by her here at all…I see a murder. He is a coldblooded killer.

    • Lisa

      I agree, women can be just as abusive if not more abusive than men. Women use words as a form of abuse. Men settle their differences with their fists while women use their words to destroy another person. Society is use to believing that the man is the abuser because he is inherently stronger than a woman, (most of the time)They believe that women are weaker and can’t really hurt a man physically. Abuse is abuse, it does not matter what shape of form it comes in. I hope the whole story comes out and justice is served. She may have been hitting him and even pulled a knife but there is no evidence of a weapon laying next to her body, therefore she WAS murdered. I pray for the families of both the victim and her assailant. I am sure they are all suffering great pain and loss. No one has thought to mention that there was a 10 year old child that witnessed this! That is a tragedy she will have to live with the rest of her life and I hope that is taken into consideration when he is sentenced! He took two lives that day!

    • Shneevels

      Nice to see a female acknowledge this for once. Too often men are blamed for everything that’s wrong in our society. And I agree with you…she WAS murdered, and it IS inexcusable. A good friend of mine is serving 25 years to life because he finally had had enough of his wife’s physical and emotional abuse. He showed remarkable patience and restraint for a long time, but in the end he snapped in a rage and strangled her. He should have just walked away again….and then finally just walked out on her for good. Killing is never the answer, and now his kids have lost both of their parents.

    • Carlos Medina

      Why isn’t murder the answer? Other mammals do it all the time. At least the bitch is keeping her mouth shut for once.

  • disqus_TXbAW3jEhk

    This happened in Florida? Then I’m sure Stand Your Ground will apply to him.

  • kim

    She was just as much of a loser for going back to him after she divorced him!

    • 15yr-old tryingtomakeapoint

      Are you kidding me? That is incredibly disrespectful. This woman was just murdered. Maybe you don’t believe in a higher power, but if you do, what would do you think he/she would think of you saying that? I can honestly not believe that any human being would post such a foul thing. Have some respect, for God’s sake if for no one else’s.
      It is incredibly difficult for a woman who has endured abuse from her husband to simply “leave.” People always say, “If he hits you, just leave! Just get out, you stupid idiot! What are you doing still with him?” Yes, it was obviously a mistake for her to go back to him. But who’s to say that he wouldn’t have went after her to murder her? What if she was frightened that if she didn’t go back to him he would come after her? Do you know that he didn’t threaten her while they were divorced? It’s not difficult to find someone’s whereabouts, even in another state, if you know the least bit of information about someone. Also, physical abusers are almost always emotional/mental abusers. A woman going back to a man that has abused her is not uncommon, not only because of the incredible economic difficulties that can surround going from a two-person financial dynamic to a one-person dynamic (also take into account that many women quit their jobs and homeschool their children, making it difficult to rejoin the work force – or if they don’t have any education), but also because of the “rollercoaster” effect pathological men can have on women in intimate relationships. The woman will keep feeling like she’s the wrong one, she’s crazy and he’s fine. But, sadly, Jennifer Alfonso wasn’t the crazy one. Derek Medina is.
      Do you want to know who the real loser is? Well, first of all, Derek Medina is the real loser. He murdered his wife and subjected his 10-year-old daughter to witnessing it. But do you want to know who the next real loser is? That would be you, “kim”. You just completely disrespected the family and friends of Jennifer Alfonso and called a victim of murder “just as much of a loser” as her murderer.
      I truly hope that you do not have to understand just how wrong your comment is, and that God will watch over you. Sometimes the people who broadcast so against the victim are the ones who end up the victims themselves. I truly hope that never happens to you.
      Reading comments of people who don’t understand the dynamics of domestic abuse is very upsetting. >_< Please have some respect for the Alfonso family, people.

    • kim

      So then I must ask you at what point does it NOT become everybody else’s problem when the broads keep going back to abusive boyfriends/husbands? I myself can only have so much sympathy for someone who continually goes back to the abuser! Anyone with a half of functioning brain would agree.

    • 15yr-old tryingtomakeapoint

      What does that mean, at what point does it not become everybody else’s problem? I don’t really understand that. Are you trying to say that women who go back to their abusers cause society difficulties? You can correct me if I’m wrong, I just didn’t really get that.
      Do you realize how difficult it is to get away from abusers? Like I mentioned before, finances are a huge one. It took my mom several months just to get straight how to afford a train ticket out of our town (my father took ahold of the finances) without my father knowing, and once he found out she had to develop a lie to explain why we left so he wouldn’t come after us (he managed to figure out the address of where we went – with relatives). That was after the many years it took us to figure out that he was, in fact, “bad”. Of course, I always knew that someone who drinks himself into oblivion and strangles your mother in front of you wasn’t a good person, but he was my father. I would try to tell my mom, but many times she wouldn’t want to listen, and she would be in denial about how bad he was because, well, just think of how much her life would change if she really came to terms with how bad he really was. Then she would have had to deal with the full scope of realizing just how dangerous he is and how to get out. Plus, my father was always planting things in her head, getting her to think she was crazy and diminishing her self-esteem, so she couldn’t trust her own instincts about him.
      What I’m getting at here is that it’s not all as easy as it sounds, kim. Coming first hand from a kid who’s been through domestic abuse I can tell you that leaving the abuser is incredibly difficult. And does it get any easier once you’re out? My mom and I were talking about this last night, actually. No, it doesn’t. She told me, and I quote, “I really do understand why women go back to them, you know? It’s really hard.” One of the things that make it really hard are the children involved and custody/visitation. Many mothers don’t want to upset their children from their homes, or feel like if they go back to their children’s father it will help the children in some way. Also, continually having to escort children (depending on the age, too, or if the child doesn’t feel safe with the father on their own) to visits with the abuser is incredibly scarring for the woman. They have to come face to face with their deepest fears every other weekend, or for an hour every two weeks. To you that may not seem like much, but trying to heal from abuse in an environment like that is practically impossible. I’ve been there, I know.
      Think about this, also: you’re not safe just because you’re no longer married or because you’re separated or because you’re not in the same household. People like to think that they are, but that’s skewed “tough-girl” thinking. I’m sorry, but the fact is that it’s not difficult to find people if you have a little bit of information in this technological day and age. And these pathological men, as Mr. Medina has so wonderfully pointed out to us, are not above going after you. They don’t care about getting caught by the police. They don’t care about losing money or their jobs. They get their heads set on causing you as much pain as possible and that’s all that matters to them. Why? Because they’re pathological. Think about having someone like that around you, or even just someone like that knowing all your information. Do you think it’s easy to get away from someone who knows everything about you and is hell-bent on throwing you off the cliff? Wouldn’t you just give up at some point and settle for the path of least resistance? That’s what I assume Jennifer did (I don’t know all the facts, only law enforcement has access to all of them, so don’t take that too serious), and that’s what a lot of women do. Trust me, I’ve been with my mother the entire way through all the years of trying to get away from my father. There were so many times when she would break down and tell me that she wished she would’ve stayed with my father and made it all work and dealt with the beatings and the alcoholism just to make our lives better, even just my life better. She still apologizes to this day for all the pain we’ve had to go through, several years of surviving off of child support, living in teeny-tiny studio apartments with family members, moving from city to city, in and out of schools. We don’t own a house, we don’t have health insurance, she doesn’t have retirement, I have no college savings whatsoever, and we’re several thousands of $$$ in debt. We had to leave our home of 11 years because that’s what the judge decided. I didn’t even get to keep my dog. We had to figure out how to survive on our own and my father made it as difficult as he possibly could, even from afar. He played mind-games over the phone and email, often threatening my mom and I, screwed my mom out of her tax return, would stop paying child support here and there. I had to keep reminding her day in and day out what we were fighting for and that it would never be worth it to go back, even if the odds were stacked completely against us. Luckily, I was enough support for her, along with the rest of our tiny family. I’m guessing Jennifer may not have had much support. Even with all the support in the world it’s still incredibly difficult. It’s incredibly sad when women try to get out but they can’t, or feel that they have to end up going back. Medina could have told Jennifer he would find her and kill her if she didn’t come back. You might say, oh, big deal, he’s bluffing. What if he isn’t? What if he knew her address? Okay then, just move. But he could still find her. What if she was struggling as it was, didn’t have enough money to pay the rent that month, the shower broke or she lost her job or one of her family members past away? What if she was so upset from leaving him in the first place, so confused and frustrated with trying to figure it all out on her own, that she just didn’t know what else to do but go back? Maybe she thought she was being irrational in the first place for leaving him, because he kept telling her she was just a crazy b*tch and delusional and irrational. The thing is you don’t know, and you can’t blame someone for something when you don’t know where they were at to begin with.
      I understand where you are coming from, but just try to stop and open up your mind. I know it’s difficult to understand, but there are reasons why women go back to their abusers. Try picking up a book by Lundy Bancroft – he has some incredible information about how to protect yourself against pathological people, especially in intimate relationships, and the issues surrounding the topic.
      You SHOULD have sympathy for someone who continually goes back to the abuser, kim. Especially someone who’s been murdered. Fact is, Jennifer Alfonso undoubtedly went through a lot of cold-blooded, awful abuse before her death, and I myself have all the sympathy in the world for women who have been abused by their husbands, even if they’ve gone back again and again. It means something’s very wrong when women go back to their abusers again and again. Not wrong with the woman – wrong with the man. And very wrong men put right women in bad situations – sometimes that means women don’t have much of a choice as to whether to go back to them, or even if they do and they have the support to figure it all out, they can’t find it or don’t feel like they can do it. In some situations, it comes down to the better of two evils: be abused and maybe be killed, or try to combat a 75-85% (just my own guesstimate from experience) chance of being killed. You pick one. It’s not easy, is it? And that’s the un-emotional, totally logistic way of looking at it. There’s so much more that goes into it then that.
      BTW, I have a fully-functioning brain – 4.2 GPA. And I don’t agree with you. So bite me. Granted, I might agree with you had I not experienced what I have, but I get on here and rant not just because it makes me feel better (which I won’t lie and say it doesn’t) but because I want people to understand and have respect for the difficulties surrounding domestic abuse. It’s not all as black and white as people want to make it. I’m sorry, I wish it was, but it’s not.

    • 15yr old is stupidannoying

      Are you seriously on this post just to write on everyone’s comment?

    • n1c

      tldr n1c

    • n1c

      tldr n1c

  • Zancho

    so because she showed up to work with some bruises it means that he started a fight and beat the tar out of her? there is no chance that it was because he punched back?

    Also, I have known CRAZY females, the kind who will do anything to have people eating out of their hands, including but not limited to self inflicting wounds, crazy females are out there people, lets not pretend they do not exist, I am not saying Alfonso was a crazy female or a bad person, I did not know her, I also agree that Murder is never an option,
    all I am saying is DO NOT JUMP TO CONCLUSIONS, usually people close to alleged victims will speak highly or at the very least well about them, and also people close to the alleged murderer are likely not to speak ill of him/her.

    Brace your selves everyone, the sexist comments are coming.

    • stopblamingthevictim

      I read the police report and it tells a different story even to the one he posted on Facebook. Dude was trained in martial arts. You’re telling me he couldn’t defend himself against his wife for hitting him? Please. I am not jumping to conclusions, you are. I hate when people are so quick to say it was the woman’s fault. She’s dead. He’s not. Figure it out.

    • dottie

      I also read the police report not only was he trained in martial arts but he had enough strength to take the knife out of her hands she didnt cut him or anything and your telling me he couldn’t defend himself without killing her. and another thing he says in the police report he went and got his gun, why didn’t he just leave the house instead of getting the gun if he had time to go get the gun then he had time to leave.

  • stopblamingthevictim
  • AMYnTX

    I don’t have any words other than I’m so sorry for her friends and family to now be able to view this picture online. I’m sorry that she has been disrespected even in death to have this picture available. If she hit him, it was wrong but she didn’t deserve to die for it.. Neither would a man in the same situation.

  • Justice

    You really need to blur out the names of the friends who commented on the picture.

  • Vero

    The irony is that his idiot wrote self-help books about marriage!!

  • Bobbie Franklin

    What a pussy this so called “man” is, a woman punching a man even IF he’s telling the truth you walk away you don’t blow them away then post pictures, what a sick fuck! I hope and pray he gets the death penalty.

  • Stand Your Ground, I Think Not

    I was just looking for the knife he said she was coming at him with….not in the photo, hmmm.

    • treeboa

      Also, If it was accurate, a local reporter said he disarmed her then got his gun. NOT self defense.

    • dottie

      Ya the article on fox news said he took it from her and put it in a drawer then she started hitting and he shot her multiple times .

  • EarlyMorningCoffee

    What the fuck is wrong with this website? Why show those images? Fuckheads.

  • Jaromir Garcia

    She was a great friend and everything a mother should be for her daughter. I wish o could have seen her one last time…

  • kitzah

    Hurray for population control

  • Brian Edward Croner

    He chased her down, backed her into a corner, and shot her dead.

    • dottie

      Agreed he put the evidence in plane sight.

  • lebanese guy

    ok so it looks like he caught her cheating on him..had a big fight with her and shot her dead then created another story to cover up the real motive,,case solved!

  • A Loved One

    My appreciation to you all for your condolences and prayers. As her step father… it’s STILL as difficult to deal with. Thanks again to you all!!!

    • laura

      I just wanted to say im so sorry of what happened, everyday I go on her fb page or look at the pics of her and my mom (amada) and the whole dennys crew, I drove down 13 hours just to say goodbye to her and everyday I feel like I miss her even more. you guys will stay in my prayers because I personally know her, she means the world to me. she has helped me through everything and I hope you are your family are getting a weight lifted day by day. may you all have a wonderful holidays.

  • David

    So sad. How can you do this to someone. She so beautiful.

  • Alisa

    Jennifer Alfonso was murdered by her husband and he posted the photo of her murdered body on Facebook along with a confession. Please do not let his publicity stunt win, do not let her death be in vein. Use whatever brought you here, to give to her. EVERY DOLLAR HELPS!!! This page is to help raise money for Jennifer Alfonso to help her family bury her and pay any cost they need. Please help with anything you can.
    go to “go fund me Jennifer Alfonso Memorial” http://www.gofundme.com/JenniferAlfonsoMemorial

    • DReview

      George Zimmerman murdered a teenage boy because of the color of his skin and the clothes he was wearing… the police let him go on the assumption of self defense… Under the current status of Florida… This guy might actually get away with it.

  • Veux

    It doesn’t take a rocket scientist to see by the pictures that he had her in a corner on her knees when he shot her…the husband is full of BS. Don’t forget there is a ten year old child that can let the authorities know how the relationship really was……

  • dottie

    What’s wrong with you people trying to justify this, whether it was self-defense or not he was 6′ 200lbs she was smaller than him if he had enough power to take the knife out of her hand and said he walked away to go get his gun he could have easily walked out of the house and left her alone. Then he posted on FB people is that not enough to say it was cold blooded purposeful murder he actually uploaded that shit onto the FB photos and posted it on his wall with a long ass paragraph that took time to do which means he is clearly psychotic and new what he was doing. No excuse!

    • Yvi LaUnica

      I agree . He knew what he was doing. he seem to get some sick pleasure from posting the pictures why else post them.

  • Bennigna Rivera

    Did he tag her in the photo?

  • Gail Pandori

    Ok so this poor woman is dead and everyone is fighting?…Come on…He killed her..the end…He deserves death penalty!

    • Yvi LaUnica

      But I bet now they will try to say he is crazy because he posted the pictures.He seems more arrogant then crazy to me.I saw the video he was just so calm walking out that door it gave me chills.

  • Susan MinhTrang Nguyen

    Such a sad story. What is wrong with people now a days? “My wife punch me so I have to kill her” what a fruitcake. He deserves to rot in prison. But one question and so sorry if who ever reads this takes it the wrong way but I have to ask. Why are her legs like that? Is that how she fell? RIP Jennifer.

    • Yvi LaUnica

      I just could not believe they would allow these pictures to be up and as far as your question Am no specialist but I’d have to say its because the sick bastard had her on her knees when he did it.Its So sad nobody deserves this

  • Bennigna Rivera

    He didn’t even tag her in the post…

  • eavesmac

    Its progressive doctrine to disrespect. Once you have the other person upset, you have the upper-hand. Disrespectful is today’s society in general toward one another. I remember when it was not so, and the good ol’ US was a better place. Watch a few old movies to see what I mean. If this place continues on this line, in a few years we could be like Africa; total chaos, confusion, and poverty. Yes, I’m a racist.

  • eavesmac

    Its progressive doctrine to disrespect. Once you have the other person upset, you have the upper-hand. Disrespectful is today’s society in general toward one another. I remember when it was not so, and the good ol’ US was a better place. Watch a few old movies to see what I mean. If this place continues on this line, in a few years we could be like Africa; total chaos, confusion, and poverty. Yes, I’m a racist.

  • michaethomas

    looks like stand your ground. his word against hers, and well…

    • DReview

      Sadly Michael you are right… Stand your ground law is in its core the most racist law passed in history… it might also be sexist as well.

  • Mrs.Cunningham

    This story is so sad, especially for their 10 year old daughter. She lost her mother and her father. Sad story!!!

  • Ann

    And he even had the audacity to publish it on facebook ? That only shows what kind of person he is. Killing his wife and posting it for all the word to see is horrific. I just hope speedy justice will be served .

    • DReview

      Not in florida. They have the racist “Stand your ground” law…. Apparently she was holding a knife… lets see how it plays out in court.

      Young woman with a knife vs a man with a gun

      17 year old teenager without gun or knife vs 35 year old man with gun = man with gun considered a victim.

  • George jefferosn

    She’s hot looking, I can imagine what she looks like with those pants off :)?

  • someone

    he says that she had a knife…well in the photo i see no knife in her hand or neaer her body….clearly a crime of passion bc he was jealous she wanted to leave his ass

  • Yvi LaUnica

    I know most of you are starving for attention but why not have some respect for
    the victim..Its disrespectful enough that her death has been paraded on
    the media and internet like it does not matter that young lady had a
    10yr old daughter who was in the home at the time did you ever stop to think
    how that poor little angel would feel if she saw her mother this way
    you should be ashamed.This family has gone thru enough.

    **My prayers are with the family,God Bless**

    • You Don’t Say?

      Why would any of us be ashamed for? You obviously came trolling to find the photo. But we are the ones starving for attention? Go ahead and preach on your comments, I’m sure that’s your ticket to heaven you filthy immigrant b*tch.

  • James Savile

    Well, this was determinately premeditated! His pose with the gun, shows this. First degree murder!

  • matt headley

    He looks like George Zimmerman

    • DReview

      IF he gets away with it from the racist, ill conceived “Stand your ground” law. He will be the face of florida Next to Zimmerman.

    • fakename

      If you consider “stand your ground” to be “racist”, you’re a complete fucking moron.

  • sonny boable

    like so many others the CHICKEN will try to plea bargan to save his life when hers was worth nutton to him wait for him other prisoners he wants to be a bad a wait till he gets to prison

  • DReview

    Zimmerman and now this guy…. And they look the same. Florida thanks for showing us that you are the bottom waste of our country.

  • lisa

    for the respect and love of her family. remove these images immediately, or you will be added to the lawsuit.

  • Carlos Medina

    lmfao

    Karma’s a bitch, ain’t it? Dumb whore got what she deserved.

  • hahahahah

    wtf???all you people are fuckin stupid!!! get a fucking life!!!! go get a job!!! you wanna say sorry, and cry for someone you don’t even know!!! fucking losers!!! waste of lifes!!!! fucking cunts!!!! Go kill yourself since your soooo bored and you need something to do!!!!!!!

  • Tristen Whitlock

    I find it hilarious that carlos medina took the time to comment on every single post, spout obcenities, and he thinks he’s cool as fuck now xD You seem to misunderstand the concept of who gives a fuck? Do yourself a favor and hang yourself. Just do it, right now. Better yet, hang yourself and shoot yourself while you’re hanging. And lets not forget the camera.