How to Make Her Orgasm

Not a whole lot of men like to admit that we aren’t able to please our ladies but it is true. A few trips down hard-and-fast road has us arriving at our destination promptly but for the women folk, we often have to take the scenic route.

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I’d say it is about a 50-50 split regarding whether a woman has the ability to cum from penetration alone. So paying attention to the clit is key and remember; location, location, location. If you don’t know where it is, shame on you! Every chick has a different way of liking this part of their anatomy pleased and there are a few combinations to the safe that you should try.

First, ask her to tell you how she likes it. Since it can make her uncomfortable to be vocal about sex, this might not always work. Second, have her guide your movements. Whether you choose to use your finger, your tongue, or another appendage, let her control your actions so that you can learn what she likes. Third, have her show you. It is every man’s fantasy to watch your woman masturbate! However, by observing how she touches herself and where she pays the most attention, you are sure to absorb the information you need. Think of the clit as the microwave to her vagina’s oven. The vag needs to heat up and takes time to get to the right temperature but when working with the clit just press the right buttons and get to cooking.

Entering the secret sanctum of the female body can be a complicated process. Even by seeing her jack off, you can’t realize exactly what it is going to take to make her orgasm properly. So get your dildos, fingers, and penises ready because it’s going to be a bumpy ride.

The fingers should try to discover where her g-spot is hiding. Roam around a little in there until you are able to pinpoint the exact location. And by God, don’t forget! That piece of information is going to come in handy later. My personal tactic is to have my palm facing up, insert my first two fingers, curve them, and slide my hand back and forth until her body gives the secret away. I promptly memorize where it is before moving on.

Utilizing the dildo is like personally banging your girlfriend and watching someone else do it at the same time. It is an awe inspiring experience. You can go fast or slow, shallow or deep and it only takes the endurance of your wrist muscles. Be careful though, a penis can’t compete with some of the new toys on the market.

What it basically comes down to is that you have to try. A woman isn’t going to cum until you put forth some effort. They will give credit where credit is due but you better bring your A-game because if you don’t feel that sudden moisture down below, she is either holding back or faking. Otherwise I have two words: good luck!