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		<title>By: Keeping it Real, even when it sucks</title>
		<link>http://www.everyjoe.com/articles/must-have-skills-hiring/comment-page-1/#comment-308204</link>
		<dc:creator>Keeping it Real, even when it sucks</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 18 Jul 2008 10:07:26 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] a recent post about 5 skills for hiring, frequent reader and commenter Chain Smoking Blue Monkey had the following comment that really [...]</description>
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		<title>By: CK</title>
		<link>http://www.everyjoe.com/articles/must-have-skills-hiring/comment-page-1/#comment-309207</link>
		<dc:creator>CK</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 11 Jul 2008 11:43:04 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Thanks Phil! I&#039;ll be e-mailing you soon.

But the point I want to stress is that it isn&#039;t just me! It isn&#039;t just my department nor my division but the entire organization! I was told by an individual who attended a retirement benefits meeting. The meeting was standing room only! The HR rep said that it was the largest in the history of the Organization and that they had to hold a second meeting for others who couldn&#039;t fit in the room. People are wanting to leave!

Some co-workers have approched me asking for me to hire them if I get another job. They stress that they want to work for me rather than our current employer. 


Some of my fellow co-workers have hired lawyers in order to protect themselves for our employer. I know of a few who had to bring their lawyers in with them to &quot;meetings&quot; as procautions.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Thanks Phil! I&#8217;ll be e-mailing you soon.</p>
<p>But the point I want to stress is that it isn&#8217;t just me! It isn&#8217;t just my department nor my division but the entire organization! I was told by an individual who attended a retirement benefits meeting. The meeting was standing room only! The HR rep said that it was the largest in the history of the Organization and that they had to hold a second meeting for others who couldn&#8217;t fit in the room. People are wanting to leave!</p>
<p>Some co-workers have approched me asking for me to hire them if I get another job. They stress that they want to work for me rather than our current employer. </p>
<p>Some of my fellow co-workers have hired lawyers in order to protect themselves for our employer. I know of a few who had to bring their lawyers in with them to &#8220;meetings&#8221; as procautions.</p>
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		<title>By: Phil Gerbyshak</title>
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		<dc:creator>Phil Gerbyshak</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 11 Jul 2008 09:25:26 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>&lt;b&gt;moneypenny&lt;/b&gt; - tough question. I&#039;ll give it some thought soon. Thanks for stopping by.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><b>moneypenny</b> &#8211; tough question. I&#8217;ll give it some thought soon. Thanks for stopping by.</p>
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		<title>By: Phil Gerbyshak</title>
		<link>http://www.everyjoe.com/articles/must-have-skills-hiring/comment-page-1/#comment-308686</link>
		<dc:creator>Phil Gerbyshak</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 11 Jul 2008 09:24:50 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>&lt;b&gt;Terry&lt;/b&gt; - Always glad to share a link where it fits. Hi back to you and Mopey!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><b>Terry</b> &#8211; Always glad to share a link where it fits. Hi back to you and Mopey!</p>
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		<title>By: Phil Gerbyshak</title>
		<link>http://www.everyjoe.com/articles/must-have-skills-hiring/comment-page-1/#comment-309082</link>
		<dc:creator>Phil Gerbyshak</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 11 Jul 2008 09:24:14 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>&lt;b&gt;CK&lt;/b&gt; - Sorry to hear things are tough right now. Where are you located? Perhaps I can help you find a better fit for you?</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><b>CK</b> &#8211; Sorry to hear things are tough right now. Where are you located? Perhaps I can help you find a better fit for you?</p>
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		<title>By: Phil Gerbyshak</title>
		<link>http://www.everyjoe.com/articles/must-have-skills-hiring/comment-page-1/#comment-308288</link>
		<dc:creator>Phil Gerbyshak</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 11 Jul 2008 09:23:17 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>&lt;b&gt;csbmonkey&lt;/b&gt; - You are right on the money with your question about &quot;how do you remain realistic without being saccharine? How do you acknowledge the darker side of things while also keeping a positive but not delusional attitude.&quot; I&#039;ve been struggling with this question myself for some time, as I find a lot of folks are curious to my answer, as I am generally a very positive &quot;Things are great&quot; perspective. I&#039;ll address this in full next week because it&#039;s so important, but one of the ways I do that is by focusing on what is right, yet sharing where we can improve. Things are seldom as good, or as bad, as we think they are, at least not for long. Feeling woe is me doesn&#039;t help ANYONE out.

I know this post was about the job interview, so I&#039;ll also say that if you&#039;re spewing forth no solutions and complaining at a job interview, or if you&#039;re only sharing a my job is great and nothing could be improved attitude, neither will get you onto my team. You need to optimistic that things CAN change, even if they totally suck right now.

I promise I&#039;ll do a full post on this next week. Thanks for bringing it up!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><b>csbmonkey</b> &#8211; You are right on the money with your question about &#8220;how do you remain realistic without being saccharine? How do you acknowledge the darker side of things while also keeping a positive but not delusional attitude.&#8221; I&#8217;ve been struggling with this question myself for some time, as I find a lot of folks are curious to my answer, as I am generally a very positive &#8220;Things are great&#8221; perspective. I&#8217;ll address this in full next week because it&#8217;s so important, but one of the ways I do that is by focusing on what is right, yet sharing where we can improve. Things are seldom as good, or as bad, as we think they are, at least not for long. Feeling woe is me doesn&#8217;t help ANYONE out.</p>
<p>I know this post was about the job interview, so I&#8217;ll also say that if you&#8217;re spewing forth no solutions and complaining at a job interview, or if you&#8217;re only sharing a my job is great and nothing could be improved attitude, neither will get you onto my team. You need to optimistic that things CAN change, even if they totally suck right now.</p>
<p>I promise I&#8217;ll do a full post on this next week. Thanks for bringing it up!</p>
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		<title>By: csbmonkey</title>
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		<dc:creator>csbmonkey</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 10 Jul 2008 20:44:13 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>In defense of &quot;Mopey Murphy&quot;:  That very well might be the result of a bad manager that someone has had to toil underneath for years.  Additionally, a realistic point of view (mind you, not necessarily a pessimistic one) can often come across like this as well.  Yes, ideally we see challenges like budget crunches and shortage of staff as opportunities to try and make things better with limited resources, but you can&#039;t always put a smile one when the world has been telling you you can&#039;t dance for a long time.  (see http://www.wetherobots.com/ for the reference)

I have often wondered where the balancing fine line between being realistic and being pessimistic or optimistic lies.  The constant &quot;EVERYTHING IS GREAT!  WE HAVE NO PROBLEMS! WE HAVE GREAT CUSTOMERS!  YOU ARE ALL EQUALLY WONDERFUL!&quot; cheery attitude that I see in a lot of managers comes across as painfully insincere, and worse, obviously insincere.  It is done in the service of not wanting to appear negative or biased or whatever, but the end result is often the opposite on employees.

I admit that I question a lot of the catch-phrasism I see here on Slacker Manager.  You guys do a great job at looking at a lot of different ways to be good managers and on how to motivate employees you are supervising, but there are certainly times when I see something here that strikes me as a little less than genuine and a little more pie in the sky everything is wonderful optimism.

That brings up some very important questions about how you remain who you are and remain sincere to not only your employees but yourself.  How do you remain realistic without being saccharine?  How do you acknowledge the darker side of things while also keeping a positive but not delusional attitude?</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In defense of &#8220;Mopey Murphy&#8221;:  That very well might be the result of a bad manager that someone has had to toil underneath for years.  Additionally, a realistic point of view (mind you, not necessarily a pessimistic one) can often come across like this as well.  Yes, ideally we see challenges like budget crunches and shortage of staff as opportunities to try and make things better with limited resources, but you can&#8217;t always put a smile one when the world has been telling you you can&#8217;t dance for a long time.  (see <a href="http://www.wetherobots.com/" rel="nofollow">http://www.wetherobots.com/</a> for the reference)</p>
<p>I have often wondered where the balancing fine line between being realistic and being pessimistic or optimistic lies.  The constant &#8220;EVERYTHING IS GREAT!  WE HAVE NO PROBLEMS! WE HAVE GREAT CUSTOMERS!  YOU ARE ALL EQUALLY WONDERFUL!&#8221; cheery attitude that I see in a lot of managers comes across as painfully insincere, and worse, obviously insincere.  It is done in the service of not wanting to appear negative or biased or whatever, but the end result is often the opposite on employees.</p>
<p>I admit that I question a lot of the catch-phrasism I see here on Slacker Manager.  You guys do a great job at looking at a lot of different ways to be good managers and on how to motivate employees you are supervising, but there are certainly times when I see something here that strikes me as a little less than genuine and a little more pie in the sky everything is wonderful optimism.</p>
<p>That brings up some very important questions about how you remain who you are and remain sincere to not only your employees but yourself.  How do you remain realistic without being saccharine?  How do you acknowledge the darker side of things while also keeping a positive but not delusional attitude?</p>
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		<title>By: moneypenny</title>
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		<dc:creator>moneypenny</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 10 Jul 2008 19:01:57 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>hey phil enjoy your blog. how about using that creative brain of yours by entering our competition at, see you there
http://www.digitalmoneyworld.com/e-dream-design-your-own/</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>hey phil enjoy your blog. how about using that creative brain of yours by entering our competition at, see you there<br />
<a href="http://www.digitalmoneyworld.com/e-dream-design-your-own/" rel="nofollow">http://www.digitalmoneyworld.com/e-dream-design-your-own/</a></p>
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		<title>By: Terry Starbucker</title>
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		<dc:creator>Terry Starbucker</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 10 Jul 2008 12:19:19 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hey Phil, thanks for the link - I&#039;ll give Mopey your regards as well. You have him pegged! :-)

Great post.

Terry</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hey Phil, thanks for the link &#8211; I&#8217;ll give Mopey your regards as well. You have him pegged! :-)</p>
<p>Great post.</p>
<p>Terry</p>
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		<title>By: CK</title>
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		<dc:creator>CK</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 09 Jul 2008 18:17:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Well I have 1 through 4 down - even went as far as gettnig an MBA in InfoSec. As for as 0 and 5 ...

Attitude and communication skills - I can communicate quite well, just that we are not allowed to communicate with other departments. 

Passion for something - My passion is to leave my current employer. I am actively seeking employment elsewhere. I have upgraded my skills and education and am seeking advancement whereas my current employer is unwilling to fulfill.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Well I have 1 through 4 down &#8211; even went as far as gettnig an MBA in InfoSec. As for as 0 and 5 &#8230;</p>
<p>Attitude and communication skills &#8211; I can communicate quite well, just that we are not allowed to communicate with other departments. </p>
<p>Passion for something &#8211; My passion is to leave my current employer. I am actively seeking employment elsewhere. I have upgraded my skills and education and am seeking advancement whereas my current employer is unwilling to fulfill.</p>
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